Feminism and Transgenderism Collide

Pete Heck published an article with DISRN today called “The Coming Collision of Feminism and Transgenderism.”

He writes:

“Feminism, by its very definition, seeks the betterment, promotion, and advancement of femininity and the female sex.

Transgenderism, by its very definition, seeks to obscure, blur, and eventually eliminate all boundaries of sex and gender.

How anyone can think that those two positions are compatible defies common sense…

[Several examples of female athletes being punished for saying that male and female bodies are different.]

At some point soon, society is going to have to acknowledge this argument and settle it. Will there continue to be women’s sports? Will there be women’s world records, women’s tees, women’s gold medals, and women’s divisions? Or will science and common sense take a back seat to this latest manifestation of mankind’s rebellion to God’s moral order?

If it’s the latter, let’s be clear it isn’t just Christians and conservatives who are going to be thrown under the bus. We’ll have to make room for the feminists to join us.”


You can read the whole article by clicking here.

And, if you have a looooot of patience and a looooooot of time, you can check out the comments on my last blog post: If “Common Courtesy” Won’t Work, then Abusers Will Raise the Stakes.   I wrote the post to explain how abusers try to gain power by making people afraid to say what they really think/believe… They often use verbal intimidating language and “you started it” justification…

10.18.19 Evil Trans Person (Edit #7)

Then, for some reason, “Grey” showed up in the comment section (commenting as “Lucy”) to kindly demonstrate this cultural collision that Pete Heck describes.

New thought-cults always start with the claim “Everyone belongs! We hate gatekeeping!” But it quickly progresses to “except those people who [challenge me somehow]” and then it becomes, “Those far-left Lesbians are spreading propaganda, and no one should be their ally.”

10.21.19 Far-left Lesbians (edit)

Looks like Pete is right. The Feminist-Religion and the Gender-Fluid-Religion cannot coexist.

Click here to see the rest of the comments on my last post.

54 thoughts on “Feminism and Transgenderism Collide

  1. Lucy

    You really have no clue what you’re talking about, that’s hilarious. I happen to align with most feminists, and most leftists…most of us hate the propaganda-spreading authoritarian TERFs, whose goal is trans genocide. But you sure do love assisting in the spread of their lies!


    1. mrsmcmommy Post author

      I don’t identify as “Pete Heck.” Feel free to reach out to him directly and let him know that he’s a TERF–but I bet he doesn’t identify that way, either. 😀


      1. Lucy

        If he identifies as a feminist, that’s what he is. I don’t particularly care, though, what you identify as when you’re spreading /ideas/ that came from authoritarian leftists. I thought we would at least have common ground in opposition to authoritarian communists who want me dead, but as you make painfully clear, you’re on their side. Trans-exclusionary feminists are a tiny and abusive wing of feminism, and there are substantive rebuttals to their bullshit freely available for anyone who cares to understand the dialogue. Or you could just continue making gross generalizations across multiple ideologies to demonize people based on physical body traits. Bigotry is fun too I guess.


      2. mrsmcmommy Post author

        Show me one person who identifies as a TERF.
        Name one person who calls HIMSELF or HERSELF a “Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminist.”
        I’ll wait…


      3. Lucy

        Typically they identify as radical feminists who reject trans people, or “gender critical”. The acronym is a handy way to refer to them that sums up exactly what they believe regardless of what misleading label they’re hiding behind these days.

        If you’re not aware, their ideology is implicitly misogynistic, as it holds that femininity itself is part of the problem, a tool of oppression that must be eliminated to liberate women and destroy gender roles completely. Trans people are such a threat to them, because we prove with our very existence that there is a biological aspect to gender. The policies they promote are demonstrated to directly cause the suffering and death of trans people, and they celebrate that. The most honest ones encourage trans suicide.

        Simply put, you are spreading propaganda that was designed to cause my death.


      4. mrsmcmommy Post author

        The acronym is a handy way to label them in a way they do not label themselves, and you are fully aware that it’s a violation of your own rules for other people. If I can’t do that, you can’t.


        “Misogyny mutates. The creation of ‘terf’ has been a boon to sexists everywhere. It looks woke: you’re against transphobia! It can be defended as a neutral ideological description: it’s just an acronym! And it evades social media guidelines which forbid attacks on protected minorities: “terf” doesn’t mean woman, duh! Even better, it is isolating. Who wants to complain about it, and risk being called a terf themselves? So this is where we are. The people who were opponents of GamerGate five years ago are now proponents of its successor. The language is different, but the impetus remains the same. Women are talking, and we don’t like what they are saying. So they should shut the f@#! up…”

        If you’re not aware, calling someone a TERF is implicitly misogynistic.


      5. mrsmcmommy Post author

        By “you,” I don’t mean you individually. I mean all of you (plural) ALPFIBs made up the term “TERF”…

        Oh, you haven’t heard of ALPFIBs? It stands for “Angry Language Police who Fight Invented Battles.”

        Most ALPFIBs self-identify as Trans-Activists or Gender Non-Conforming or something like that. But my acronym is a handy way to refer to them that sums up exactly what they believe regardless of what misleading label they’re hiding behind these days.

        Boy, you’re right, this IS fun.


      6. mrsmcmommy Post author



        F-WORD! F-WORD! F-WORD! (Note: I’m going to say F-Word as much as I want until you stop killing me…)


      7. Lucy

        Going for an Emmy with all that drama? All I’ve asked from you is the basic human decency to respect my existence and consider the consequences of your ideology. All I get in response is immature mockery. Figures, it’s not like you have any intellect to offer.


      8. mrsmcmommy Post author

        Basic Human Decency. That’s all I want.
        And music.
        I just want human decency and music and an island, but I’m forced to write 100’s of comments on Facebook and blogs, just to keep myself alive.


      9. Lucy

        Nah, I don’t give a fuck about myself. I’ve been suicidal since my first puberty started. I do, however, get worried about all the kids who are like me whose lives are being destroyed by the ideas you spread, as mine was.

        As a disabled and broke person, all I have is being noisy on the internet, so that’s my contribution to the push against deadly ideologies. As someone so obsessed with “trans ideology”, who started this whole mess by ridiculing my existence, you should understand the drive to counteract nonsense that has personally caused you harm.


      10. mrsmcmommy Post author

        That’s exactly what an ALPFIB would say. All of that.
        But if you apologize to Jasmine and Brendan and Matt for verbally abusing them while telling yourself you’re doing it to save kids’ lives, then maybe there’s hope.


      11. Lucy

        Exactly what a tone-policing bigot would say. Look at us, being all consistent and shit.

        I apologized to Jasmine for being harsh. I will not apologize for expressing my feelings about being ridiculed and abused myself.

        Brendan is as much of a manipulative asshole as he was when we were acquainted seven years ago so, no thanks. I don’t know Matt, but we’re currently having a reasonable discussion because he isn’t an immature bigot like you. 👍🏽


      12. mrsmcmommy Post author

        Unless you’ve completely destroyed the last bit of your conscience, you already know that you owe all of the Christians in that thread an apology for accusing them of being complicit in murdering people–when you know all of it is just Emmy-worthy theatrics that you are copying from other ALPFIBs.

        It sucks when we look in a mirror and see something less-perfect than we want to be. But, when we feel a sense of “sorry,” there’s still a chance to fix it and do better. OR, you can just keep shoving down the same path you’re on, leading to more double-standard, ALPFIB-propaganda spewing insanity…trampling innocent people like Jasmine who don’t deserve having your anger taken out on them.

        Laying down your pride and giving a genuine apology for failing to treat others as you want to be treated would be a great start. It would be a step away from the ALPFIB ideology that leads to Hell.


      13. mrsmcmommy Post author

        Your choice, then.

        “I willingly believe that the damned are, in one sense, successful, rebels to the end; that the doors of hell are locked on the INSIDE. I do not mean that the ghosts may not wish to come out of hell, in the vague fashion wherein an envious man ‘wishes’ to be happy: but they certainly do not will even the first preliminary stages of that self-abandonment through which alone the soul can reach any good. They enjoy forever the horrible freedom they have demanded, and are therefore self-enslaved: just as the blessed, forever submitting to obedience, become through all eternity more and more free.” –C.S. Lewis

        Enjoy the pseudo-freedom of being the Most Powerful and Righteous Person in your Universe. 🙂


      14. Lucy

        There you go lying some more. You’ve projected a truly stunning number of traits and ideologies onto me, for the sin of being honest about how the specific ideas you promote were and are harmful to me and others like me. I have no regrets, if your god is real he’s a monstrous abuser and eternity with him would be hell.


      1. mrsmcmommy Post author

        Yeah. 🙄 The last thing Jasmine said before she got blocked was, “I actually haven’t rejected your life experience… Merely the conclusions you’ve drawn from them.” And that was too much.

        So let that be a lesson to everyone else. YOU’RE the reason trans people suffer. Stop telling them things like THAT, which are so ooooobviously threatening and “TERF”-fueled propaganda. 🙂


      2. John Branyan

        It’s important that Christians realize who is actually the abuser. Too many gentle brothers and sisters are injured by the accusation that they’re harming sinners by calling them sinners. As the trans bullies up the volume, Christians must remember that angry shouting doesn’t turn lies into truth.


      3. mrsmcmommy Post author

        I’m VERY PROUD of the dialog that was taking place over in Jasmine’s place on Facebook… She’s got several very gentle friends who ALSO took a firm stance in reality. There was no name-calling. (Well, at least, the name-calling didn’t come from the Christians.) I never indulge Bullies in their request to shout at me just for the sole sake of the Bully. I do it for people like Jasmine’s friends, so they can feel more resilient and prepared when they’re outright attacked again in the future.


      4. John Branyan

        That’s great!
        The goal is not to turn rebellious bullies into saints, only God can do that. The goal is to exit the conversation knowing that you’re not the bad guy. That requires a solid understanding of Christian faith. When our faith is merely cultural, we get pushed around by mindless rhetoric. When saints try to accommodate sinners feelings, they both end up in Hell.


      5. mrsmcmommy Post author

        …Her friend Josiah is over there asking for Lucy’s basis for logic and objective judgement, and I’m just wiping a happy tear from my eye.
        Go, little Thinking Christians! Go use those minds to Glorify God! 🥺☺️


    1. Lucy

      I was homeschooled, so I got the ultra-nationalist white conservative Christian version of everything until I turned 20 and most of it turned out to be lies that led me down some really dangerous paths.

      I used to be a fan of yours. Sad, isn’t it, when your ideas are so harmful you alienate people who used to admire you.


      1. John Branyan

        I’m relieved that you no longer consider yourself a fan.

        I don’t think you can distinguish lies from truth. You seem to be driven solely by selfish rage. I hope you humble yourself soon so you can get better.


      2. Lucy

        You’re right that I’m driven by rage. But for the hundredth time, it’s for the people like me who are still trapped and abused by your ideology, like I used to be, people I interact with regularly who are on the verge of killing themselves because of “Christians”. Apologies for being a very sensitive and empathic person.


      3. Lucy

        Man’s bullshit doesn’t bring about anything either, but that doesn’t stop you. Your god is impotent.

        If I was selfish I wouldn’t spend so much time talking to people who make me want to die in hopes of communicating to them how I feel. However, if I was selfish I might write self-aggrandizing blog posts about how proud I am of making people feel unsafe and disrespecting their identities, and then get upset and gaslight and project my own disregard for the well-being of others onto anyone who dared to push back.


      4. Lucy

        Ooh, clever projection. You must be so proud. I bet you don’t even bother to read my personal story that has nothing to do with disregarding anyone’s well-being. You just know too much about me already.


      5. Lucy

        Brief PS, I’m not going to mention y’all or link to your blog from mine. I write about ideas, not people. Just thought you’d like to know, in case you were under the impression that I was going to write selfish posts about your comments and how bad they made me feel. There’s no risk of that happening. 👍🏽


      6. Lucy

        Yeah, y’all clearly don’t care. I do, which is why everyone has that permission. Thanks again, fuck yourselves in remembrance of me. 🤣


      7. mrsmcmommy Post author

        I counted two uses of the F-Word from yesterday, so here are two links:


        Michael McCall: https://www.facebook.com/jeffrey.mccall.792/videos/vb.100002957603763/2242606925847872/?type=2&theater

        Also, just a bonus. I was suicidal and have written about it several times. Here’s just one: https://culturesatwar.wordpress.com/2018/07/26/the-testimony-an-atheist-cant-forget/


      1. mrsmcmommy Post author

        What do you mean “sums”??? You mean, like, math? Are you referring the underrepresentation of females in STEM fields?

        (But really… Good song.) 🙂

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