On the topic of premarital sex, you’ll sometimes hear the question: “Why wouldn’t you test drive a car before you buy it?”
And, honestly, I agree completely!
As someone who saved sex for marriage, I think it’s crucial to put a potential spouse to the test.
You should test him/her…for integrity and self-control.
Those are two traits which are very important in “driving” a marriage.
Refusing to have sex before the marriage commitment is a great way to make sure a husband-or-wife-to-be is able to resist primal urges.
Test that he/she knows how to keep a difficult commitment to sexual purity, even when it would be easier to jump into a newer, less damaged model.
“Testing” a boyfriend or girlfriend for their ability to please you sexually is kind of like making sure a car has working cigarette lighters. When it comes to important details, it doesn’t even make the list.
On the other hand, CONTROLLING your various temptations will be crucial for the future of your relationship…
So, why not keep those pants on and test his/her brakes before you buy ’em.